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ABOUT MICHAEL WASH
At the age of 15, after spending 18 months in Catholic School training for a life of a religious teacher as a ‘De La Salle’ brother, I decided to come home and face the realities of a different type of ‘family’ life.
The desire within me to help others was still strong and on the eve of me leaving to do Voluntary Services overseas, at the age of 17, an opportunity to join the school of psychiatry as a student nurse was too much of a coincidence to ignore.
My path was set, but I was unhappy to be constrained by ‘institutional walls’, so after psychiatry, I trained as a general nurse, then as a tutor – and in my private practice, qualified as a counsellor and psychotherapist.
The constraining nature of the ‘health’ profession was still too much, so I decided to explore outside, and my horizon changed significantly when I was offered a job in a large telecommunications company. Here, I introduced counselling and the value of developing a supportive, facilitative change management style of leadership.
During these very formative years, I also experienced the tragic death of my mother. Following an accident, she was left in a coma for several years. Also, the death of my little sister, who was on kidney dialysis for years before succumbing to hepatitis and kidney failure. I married at the age of 21 and one of the proudest moments of my life was witnessing the birth of my twin sons.
The strain of tragedy, illness and personal change was too much for my marriage, and divorce eventually cut the chains – which enabled us both to be free and to find new happiness.
I am very happy, married to Mave and enjoying my Grandfather status, and the attention of my sons and step-children. I find time to offer my service as a Trustee for a Psychiatric Hospital not for profit organisation and as a Governor at a local primary school.The journey continues …